It's not that I hate newcomers, new friends are okay. This is because I am traumatized by my past experience. I once had a friend that I put so much trust on, I even went far as betraying my other friends. Suddenly I realize that, 'it' wasn't a true friend but a fiend, an avatar of evil. A backstabber.
Like dyrah always said not to trust anybody, eventhough they look nice on the cover but we don't know the content. It is easy to manipulate people when they have your trust. I realize that... It's not that I'm preventing to befriend with new people, just please exercise caution because the unexpected can appear anytime.